I asked t1 to read and go thru a book with me when I was first diagnosed (by someone else). I bought two copies of the book. It was new info for him. He agreed and we did it in session. I think that was reasonable because I think it is fine for me to set the agenda for a sessions when I want to. I would not edema do that he read it on his own time (although he did)

I have asked for clarification about texting boundaries about a million times, and I think it is fair to demand clarity about that or other boundary stuff.