justafriend306, one my my favorite songs is "Don't Say Nothing" by Patti Smith. I am trying to live by its message, and now I feel I must say something.

I do not think it's appropriate to call this young women's posts "cringe worthy". It is not your place to tell her what to do, nor is it your place to lecture her on responsibility. This is not tough love. I fail to see how your criticism is supposed to help her in any way. I would like you read this post:
http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...ment-here.html

For the song:
https://g.co/kgs/xyZGkN

Black-roses, you ARE worth it.