I ask very very little of my therapist. The most I have asked is for her to stop asking if I want tea or water and know I will always want water. I would love to grab it myself but she has to get it from another room which is another layer of awkwardness. She now has a glass waiting for me before every session which makes me feel bad in a different way lol! Its a longer story than this, but yes I did bring my own water for 2-3 sessions until we talked about the water situation LOL!