Shy Introvert. How do you for sure that it was one offense?
Look. I only made a suggestion. Look. This is how it works.
When someone chooses to contact the ABA, after the initial interview they have knowledge and experience to understand that what a person comes in with is often not the whole story. As a matter of fact, it's often not half of the story. So they'll delve into history of the person being complained about (defendant). That's how they work.
For instance, so perhaps this man made only one remark. As far as she knows it's true, because he said it to her. Yet the ABA will research it. She can count on it if she chooses to take that route. That's a promise.
I must add this though, just as a caution. Attorneys are not cheap. So if, after making an independent decision to contact them (which means not allowing others to dissuade her from her decision to contact them, which "others" also include members of this forum who feels she doesn't have to or shouldn't take this route, because it is her sole decision), again, after making an indepedecision to contact them, and she cannot afford the attorneys assigned to her case, their are ABA attorneys who will serve her for less than the regular cost or refer her to those who will serve her without paying hardly anything. In that case she needs to make sure they are ABA approved.