Fit me in schedule when it meant skipping lunch. Check in with me when I ask. Take time to text or call. Buy me a teddy bear and give other transitional objects. Extra sessions. Been willing to follow other ts lead, let them do the real treatment while he supports; not been all defensive about it, encourages it. No ego. Willing to admit when he goofs up, usually realizes it himself and always makes amends. 9 1/2 years of holding steady, to the point where I actually am pretty sure he will. Always kind when I don't want to leave. Buys the kind of coffee I like.