Oh my Mother knows how to play the innocent damsel in distress too, she is a master manipulator, but her true self is aggressive and vindictive.

I think my hyper-vigilant state of being prevents me from being triggered by people to the point where it shakes me. I go into survivor mode.. Once I have identified them, had a brief moment of feeling physically repulsed by their being. I then move on/away as quickly as I can.