Exactly and not meaning to carry on but I will add that as the lady was my only female role model I displayed many similar behaviors and attracted so many female friends and acquaintances like her into my life until my late 20's when I found out about PD's . So the tales and people are a long list lol it is all just a boring similar trend and I am no innocent party to it all so I am sure I have triggered many unbeknownst in my time.

Online I find whiny people who are always the victim piss me off, I have had to pull myself back from commenting on threads at times as I know I am a frothing b*^%h and what I really want to say won't be helpful