I also said to him, after he told me it challenged him

id be interested to know if you think that is good or bad?'

he said, after a pause, 'good' and at end of session after id stood up he said it was good too.

realise i did put him in either or situation though where there wasnt room to talk about how i asked questions making a difference.

feel weird obsessing over every sentence. ill probably sed all week thinking about it and he wouldnt even remember!