Well I cut off all contact to my ex husband recently. Its been a few days since I last talked to him. We do share a child so this is going to be difficult but I told him if he had anything to tell me then his wife could let me know. We were married for 10 years and together for 14 years and it's been really hard for me to let go. He got remarried shortly after the divorce. I'm so used to telling him everything, so it's so hard cutting off all contact but I know that it's for the best.