I'm a "failure" too ?

But, I have a degree and a good husband. So maybe just maybe I'm not the utter failure those abusers wanted me to think I am?

But you know what, I'd rather be me and a so called (by some "normals") "failure" than be an up themselves asshole who thinks they have the right to judge and categorise and "fail" others...

The mother said I was her "biggest failure". Ouch. And grrrr

I'm sorry, this probably isn't very helpful. I take issue with people who judge others as "failures" - you do NOT seem like a "failure" to me, whatever that means...

Can you get away from these people?

Idk, I'm very "useless" sometimes and don't have the right advice here..