I just want to make a pitch that there are therapists who don't act like the client matters to them personally and it can still work without all the huggy stuff, even for people like me who would definitely fall into the effedup attachment group. If others find success with it, great. I just wanted to say that not all therapists are out there acting super caring and some (well, one that I found) can still get the job done for really attachment-messed up people without a lot of frills.