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Originally Posted by Fharraige
You have to realize that this relationship is really over, and grieve for the loss of that relationship. It's highly likely that she will not come back to you.
Forgiving yourself would mean that you know it's over, you know your part on why it's over, and you learn from your mistakes. Then you let the event go. You may not forget it but it won't have that much power over you, either.
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I guess I'm still trying to let go completely. I've forgiven her for most things...except her cutting me off randomly. That wasn't cool. I am learning from my mistakes because I'm sure I won't make them again. Only it's hard because I keep wondering what could have been if I had just behaved myself.
Maybe she would have come back. I'm certain I at least would not have pushed her further away. That's the kicker. That's why it's hard for me to forgive myself at this moment.