ride, i honestly dont know where to start here... i know you are in pain and that you really love this woman, but, do you love yourself? I mean it seems as if you were having a problem with dealing with the distance and amount of time you got to spend with her when you moved, and you needed to hear "i love you" every now and again, which is totally understandable. You told her that you needed to hear it, no problem in that. BUT... she said she couldnt do that, and that was/is not a big or hard request on your end. And if shes throwing her ex in your face like that then shes obviously not trueley over her ex... i know it probly hurts to hear such a ting, but you did ask for advice and well... im on the outside looking in and sometimes... the truth hurts. but my advice to you is to try to just forget her as much as you can and see that she obviously didnt care 4 u as much as u did 4 her. there is someone better out there 4 u. ull find sumone who appreciates love... just take it one day at a time keep your head up... you did nothing wrong ..................... butterflies002