She lives in a different state and you never get to see her. Her son isn't even there now. You keep calling her every day and then attack her. I really don't understand the point. Even if she is evil and obnoxious. You don't ever see her so what do you care. It's not like you must see her every day. That guy isn't even calling you so why you insist on relationship with his old mother especially if you hate her? She has a family. Just stop calling her.