Thank you for saying you don't know the whole story. I appreciate that.
And perhaps it does SOUND like this, yet I assure you that I have not been "in a power struggle with woman for your bf's love and attention." Actually, it's been just the opposite.
But I really appreciate your first sentence.
Oh, and if something should happen to her, and if they should blame me...well I'm sure I can live with that I assure you.