I personally find guys who are overweight with little to no muscles to be very attractive. Muscles on a guy to me is a turn off. I am not talking like 600 pounds overweight but more like 250 to 300 pounds. I have dated some skinny guys but they were mostly jerks. I have dated a lot of overweight guys and they were so sweet. I also find a sense of humor and a strong sense of family to be very attractive.