I'm having surgery this Friday ( nothing life threatening). I had my last session yesterday with my therapist. I emailed her ( as always after session.. and she is fine with email) and I asked her if she would miss me. Her response was " I understand the need behind your question and I will tolerate not answering your yes or no question instead I will remain by you by fielding, accepting and feeling the pushing energy".
I understand that my therapist wants me to FEEL the connection that we share and through that I might find the answer but seriously??? I'm about to go under the knife, I won't see her for almost a month, all I wanted to hear is " yes, I will miss you 1step". In relationship we share our feelings with those we are close to. And although this is not your typical relationship it is still a close relationship nonetheless. I don't see why in the world she can't say a simple yes, I will miss you... unless of course she won't miss me.. that, too has gone through my mind. Any thoughts are greatly appreciated.. thanks!!