As I posted earlier in this thread, my husband had severe attachment problems and came through them for the most part with the help of our very effective therapist (and a very patient wife). The therapist's guidance and support through those issues brought him so a much more internally secure and peaceful place. Neither of us have been in therapy now for several years and we are really doing quite well. (I still participate here because I started here when I wasn't doing so well, and I just continue to stay interested in the topic of therapy and still see my therapy experience at work in my life daily even though I'm no longer in therapy today.)