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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
I'm confused by her answer, period. How does one "tolerate" not answering yes or no when one has chosen to do so oneself? Toleration is for things other people do. Also her energy statement reads that she's feeling the energy from you, not the other way around.
I guess I'd say, she did choose the harder, more "instructive" path, and also that is the kind of question people react badly to (me being one of them) - like they think the person should know that already.
Still, I would at least have said "hope the surgery goes well, looking forward to seeing you again when you're back on your feet."
If I were you, I'd be tempted to write back and say, "No, seriously. Will you miss me?"
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Perhaps I should know the answer but I think it is just being human to want to hear " of course I'll miss you"... funny enough I was looking back at some old emails and low and behold I found an email where she told me that she would miss me, that it won't be the same while I'm gone. ( I was going on a vacation).. so not sure what has changed in our relationship. She did wish me well last night and for a speedy recovery. I love your suggestion for me to tell her " no, seriously .. will you miss me?" Lolololol. That's great!! I may just email that to her.. probably won't get anything back !