it seems like we get into fights all the time and its always over stupid stuff. like hell take something i say the wrong way and it turns into a huge fight where i inevitably end up crying.

we came from totally different backgrounds. his family is wealthy, country club goers all that crap. my family is lower class, parents divorced, never gotten anything handed to me. ive also been in an abusive relationship over 2 years ago.

well its extremely hard to talk to him about family or exes because he doesnt understand. and then he gets all defensive because he doesnt understand and it always comes back on me. just once i want him to take responsibility for what he does. if he does something that makes me mad, instead of just apologizing it always turns into "well you do this" kinda thing and i just dont feel like i can take it anymore. i feel like he doesnt even like me and that the only reason hes with me is because he doesnt think he can get anyone else but every time i say that to him he denies it up and down. but he doesnt even act like he loves me anymore.

i have no idea what to do. i said couples counseling and he totally flipped saying that people who have only been together a couple years dont need that and we can fix it ourselves. then i gave him several examples of how we dont resolve things and he just got pouty.