Yes, I believed in it ^, too, and last year I was feeling like it sounds like you are feeling now. Hopefully it will work out better for you than for me.

If you have a good social support network out of therapy, then from what Lolagrace has said it sounds like you have a good chance. But if you don’t – and believe me, I have tried – then from my experience it’s more iffy.

It’s easy to look my situation, for instance, and say, well that’s her. She’s hard to get along with and also too scared of being with other people so that’s why she doesn’t have a good social support system.

But isn’t that what the problematic attachment therapy is supposed to address? And if not that therapy, what?