Many thanks Skeezyks. I'm fortunate that I have a partner who I can tell these things to and wants to help work on it. It's not something that can't be fixed and I know by working on this together, we build a stronger foundation for us. Some people believe you should figure this out on your own without making it your partner's problem; but I disagree. That defeats the purpose of having a partner. We all have insecurities at some point and I'm just learning that mine are a result of my childhood and past relationships. Neither of which have anything to do with my current girlfriend. But we'll get past this. If it can be learned, it can be unlearned. I do believe that.

Thanks again.