I'm nearly jumping up and down that I would love to do therapy with someone who trained with Babette Rothschild - but she does have to use it ! I really feel this is out of your T's reach and spending time trying to repair ruptures instead of working on trauma , I would not carry on if this was my T. But I know the difficulty , I was trying to ignore the warning signs that someone was becoming controlling and abusive but going " But there were better times ! " I left in the end. I'm sceptical but you have my best wishes as always.