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Originally Posted by Myrto
Her response is indeed very strange but at the same time, were you really prepared for a "no" response? My therapist has never and would never say she misses me and the reason is because she does NOT miss me. She told me this in so many words. Perhaps your therapist didn't want to lie. I know it sucks but it's the reality. Of course you were looking for reassurance and that's perfectly normal but clearly this was a boundary crossing for your therapist. Hope your surgery goes well.
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Same. I don't ask if my T will miss me because I already know the answer is no. And that's okay. I don't want her to miss me. I might want her to think about me especially if I was dealing with something serious like a surgery. But even with that, I wouldn't ask her if she'll think about me. I'd tell her to please keep me in your thoughts.
Good luck with your surgery!