So... something I've started realizing, is that I misinterpret pretty badly. I don't know if it's the bpd or the bipolar or just some weird flaw of mine.

For example:
I was at work. My spouse got home from a trip. She saw a used glass of wine by the sink. I had told her I wouldn't be drinking much because I feel loopy on the meds still.

She said "I say this with love, but I saw the wine glass and-"

And it sent me into an anger. How dare she accuse me when I've been so good. It's not fair. It was our roommates glass (it was).

It wasn't until hours later I realized I had gotten my back up and run with defending myself when she just merely brought something to my attention. Now I should mention in the past, I have done some awful things in our relationship... habits I have since quit.

So what do you think? Can you relate?