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Originally Posted by Crocus
I have cancelled a few sessions when I had to be out of town for work or a holiday, but I've never missed a session without cancelling well in advance. I don't think he misses me, in fact I don't understand how that would work. I pay a (low) cancellation fee but no fee for my appointments, so that does not enter into the equation.
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Me too, except I don't pay a cancellation fee. I have on occasion missed my T in the sense that when I return, I have felt glad to be back in the office.
But usually I don't miss people in general and don't think others miss me, unless it's been a really long time since we've seen each other. I haven't seen my mother in 18 months and I love her, it's been about a year longer than average, but I don't really miss her because she's not a presence in my daily life. Sometimes my children go on sleepovers or visit relatives without me, and I don't necessarily miss them because I fill my day or life with other activities. Sometimes I feel a longing to be with them, but I never have trouble finding people and things to do.
My T has a full life and I also can't see how it would work for her to miss me. Even if my session weren't filled, I think she would enjoy the hour to do something for herself or her family. She is always glad to see me when I return.