I am so sorry you have found yourself in that predicament `BUT HEY` you can meet your friend! As I am too divorced back in 2008. I took my ex for granted with going out with my friends`, that didn't involve her and 3 beautiful grown-up girls`. (Who I love so dearly)

You sound like a decent and caring person, that will one day meet your MR. Right! (I AM SURE OF IT) Have that faith and you will be rewarded one day!