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Old Oct 13, 2016, 09:47 AM
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I've been married for 22 yrs. & ive asked my husband many many times to explore new things in the bedroom.
He flat out refuses. So same stuff.

So lately I've asked him if we could change the order of how we do things. For something different.
Again he said bashfully, no. Basing his answer solely on himself & what he wants.

I knew the answer would be no. I kind of knew why, but I didn't think it would make me angry....then sad.

I'm ready to pull the plug on having sex with him anymore. I feel like a robot.

Anyone else stuck in "marriage sex?"
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