fuzzy I don't understand either....but we have to fight these abusers...together....
we have to be smarter....most of all we cant afford to take ourselves down....I have beaten myself up for breaking down big time when in practice.....I couldn't do practice anymore......people felt I was choosing to leave....they were judging me....but I was my worst judge....I continue to beat myself up...

maybe those abusers believe it is better to eat than be eaten...