Shy, I'm going to post up a few links on the subject of emotional abuse. It's not for me to say this is what is happening but you can read through yourself and see if it sounds familiar:

Signs of Emotional Abuse | World of Psychology

Emotional Abuse « Center For Relationship Abuse Awareness

I know you've posted a few times about his behaviour, and I also know it's not easy to deal with. Take your time, think long and hard about how you want your life to be in the future and what you need to do (or not) to reach that place.

Take care.