I hope you don't mind me replying to this. I'm doing so from a place of respect, sympathy and the desire to be supportive. My only observation, and it is just that, not a criticism or anything personal, is that you sometimes take someone's response to your comment, and then reply; but in a long list, where several people have said different things. So in other words, you post say 3 times in response to 3 comments. What might help is if you either replied in one longer response (you can cut and paste stuff in Word and then back onto PC so the time limit doesn't shut you out) or just take the highlighted points and reply to them in one post. I'm sure that's all people mean. The way you do it is unusual, if you have a look at some other longer threads, which may be why there is a perception of you flooding a site or being intense. So it's format rather than style. Does this help at all?