I like positive! My husband and my adopted big brother both really inspire me to keep going on in life. I'm not really close with my parents anymore, so those guys are my two favorite people in the world. I distinctly remember being a little kid living in a different state and having this void and daydreams about a couple of older guys that were special to me, so I think our story was that we were always just destined to find one another even though we were born spread out across the country. I know that may sound sort of like a manic thought, but it's been a steady one for years now. Thanks for this topic. It really lifted me up.