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Originally Posted by prefabsprout
Yes, it is mighty fine when you know you've scrubbed up well and it's appreciated in a respectful way. 
I think attractiveness is so much more than the size of ones waist though, it's confidence, style, 'sparkle' in the eyes - in both men and women. |
I would not say that it is the size of the waist, but the proportions have to be right - breasts and hips have to be bigger than the waist. I have seen gorgeous heavy women with huge butts or amplest hips who look terrific, but their waists are smaller and that makes all the difference.
My weight gain is from meds so it is not distributed in the feminine way (hips, thighs) but concentrated on the belly. I am slowly working on weight loss to counteract that. I have spent a lot of time watching people and noticed so many different, delightful shapes, but for women it is important that the waist be smaller (not small, but smaller) than other parts.
Other than that, I am totally with you on confidence and that sparkle in the eyes!