I have lost my figure too, my belly is too big. I suppose drinking alcohol and binge eating doesn't help. The trouble is I got a lot of my self confidence from compliments from men. Really wolf whistles are about wanting to shag you and nothing else, which is fine if that's what you want, but if it's not you shouldn't see them as complimentary.

If I like a guy and he finds me attractive it is a self confidence boost. If he is an a hole it isn't. I wouldn't go there now anyway but yes it's nice to feel wanted by a nice guy.

With me it would be good if I liked myself or got self confidence from things other than compliments from men. It's no wonder I have none as I haven't had many for a while! Apart from blokes who only wanted me for sex and would have said anything to get me into bed so I don't know if they meant them at all.

To answer the question, I used to like it but I wouldn't look now as I would presume it wasn't for me. To look would be big headed anyway, and it's not really about you, it's about your body, and how much they would like to shag you and shag you only. No judgement of people who only want that, but it was never something I wanted.