I'm not shaving now as I am single. But I have been told I might smell if my arm pit hair gets too long so if anything it will be that that goes. Not right now though, it's still quite short. As for my legs and private area the hair is staying. I might shave my legs if we get to next summer.

Really to be honest the choice is yours when to shave. I know that arm pits can smell if they are hairy, that is all.