Thanks for the responses everyone.

I hate video chatting. It's always so awkward for me. It's even awkward with my husband, and I've known him for fourteen years. So doing it with a doctor is one million times more awkward. I'm already anxious. That just makes it worse. I wish I could find a different one, but unfortunately I live in a very rural area now, and if I wanted a real one I'd have to drive two and a half hours, and I'd rather not do that in the middle of the winter on questionable roads.