I talked to "E" today like normal. It felt a bit uncomfortable at first. But I felt she was needing me to do the parenting here. I actually felt like a mother and her the 14yr old that needs an example. Hopefully this will be ok. SHe went out shopping with her friends today and text me later to say is it ok if her boyfriend comes round on his new moped? I replied "yup" She replied "Thanx's mum, kool x" LOL! I guess we survived.