How do I end them?


I just disengage.

Quick, like a band aide.


I stop calling, responding and where necessary block and delete.


Guess I don't really have a problem with severing ties to people who fk me over.


Also, depending on the situation I promise even more severing of ties. Eg: If anyone so much as hints that I rethink the "no contact" rule I have in place with my "brother" they will be added to the "no contact" list.