You didn't break you bf


We tend to over share (or is that just me?) and sometimes idk, for me at least, I leaned way tooooo hard on my bf in the past. It was just so good to have someone genuinely care, that I became addicted to it.


He actually escaped me to preserve his sanity. He didn't go to therapy, he ran for the hills.


I learned the hard way that we can't make our partners our therapists... And that's why I preach it day in and day out. Sure we can share how we're doing and what not, but the deep heavy stuff? T's are trained on how to deal with that, bfs and gfs?

Not so much hey.


All we do at the end of the day with all this suicide talk is make them feel scared and helpless... That's no good for either party.


And if you think on it, do they REALLY need to know?

(That question is based on the assumption that you don't need to be driven to a hospital)

I mean we have T's for that. So what's the point in scaring bf shytless?


It's actually good my bf ran away (not just for him, for me too) it opened my eyes to alot of things.


Also it gave us time and space to both get our heads straight.

We're back together now (past 4 years) and so far I haven't drowned him in borderline bullshyt.

I keep my MH as separate from my relationship as is humanly possible.
But when I do need some extra TLC, he's the first to know, and yes, even then I am now very selective about how much share.



All the best to u and bf