Thank you for all the replies. I guess I am noticing this again because my Mother died 2 months ago. So now, it is just me and my younger brother and Dad in my FOO. So I have been hanging with them a lot because they are kind of NPD. They are missing the Mommy type of attention they got. (They would see me 24/7 if I didn't set boundaries.)

I am going through my own stuff. I feel things completely different from them. My dad has mentioned several times that I don't need my psych anymore or my meds. I ignore them. I am now, and have forever been the black sheep of the family. And you know what, that has always been OK.