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Originally Posted by Angelique67
Yes, it is very hard or impossible for the family dynamics to change. It hurts so badly for the scapegoat that we are the ones desperate to change. I'm really sorry you have this position too.  [emoji813]
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I've found this too

If people - family - are intent/fixated on projecting their flaws onto someone who does not own or deserve this... This dynamic will not change until the person/people own their own "personality"
It does hurt badly.... I regret that anyone has to endure this