I always love that when I compare myself to others therapists tell me not to.

When I am having trouble what do I hear from mental health professionals oh but "you are doing so much better than almost all of the other BPD clients I know". They put me in the real world and I have to live around people who don't have or understand MI and don't accept me or my deficiencies and I can't do what they can but then I am doing so much better than other BPD clients. Ugh double standards.