On the internet, people who I know through other people, really. I don't plan to date them initially, but then I like them.

I know some women just want sex and really if that's all men want they should stick with them. I only knew one guy who wasn't like that and he's my ex. We won't get back together now. I am fed up with men who lie to get me into bed and make me think they want to date me. Someone on here said men were more honest, not in my experience. Maybe I expect too much of them. I should just accept that they can't or don't want to commit. I don't believe that there are men out there who aren't like that, other than my ex. I certainly don't know any old enough for me to date. The more men I get involved with, the more it convinces me a dog is a much better option for a life companion. The more it makes me want to stay single.

And yet I see other people dating and know it must be me. But you are right, you shouldn't sleep with men who just want you for sex. If they weren't so good at lying about what they wanted and who they were I wouldn't go there in the first place. I certainly won't believe a man again.