No. Old enough to know better. Yes, I know some women have men who haven't just wanted sex, so the problem must be me. They wouldn't give me a therapist now, with my new diagnosis of schizophrenia. I hadn't had sex for about 10 years until a couple of months ago. I did have the one man I knew wasn't like that and we split. We weren't having sex though. Now it appears I just attract men who are only after one thing. The first guy didn't get it, even though he lied through his teeth and pretended he wanted a relationship, then when he didn't get what he wanted 'changed his mind'. He told me it wasn't because I didn't sleep with him, but my friend has advised me that's probably not true. He does live far away, but clearly I wasn't worth it. I've talked about him enough on here and he doesn't deserve any more forum discussion. The next guy I did sleep with but has at last admitted it's just sex he's after and would never date me. I've known him for years. He lied to get me into bed too. He always came across as a nice person. So it must be me that's the problem.