Lately since we've been working alot on the whole rejection/defective thing and he's been trying to really put validation in there., he will say like "good job on ......" have a nice week... put one nice comment out there to hang on to ... along with all the other good stuff he gave me.. thoughts, tools, analogies. during the session. but always ends on a positive note , even if I was bawling my eyes out most of the session, I always feel more calm and settled when I walk out.. then he watches me go down the stairs while he waits at the top of them, typically.
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