In college I struggle with my sexuality. It was when I had my first bout of depression. It was very hard to accept myself because I was always worried about what others would think, especially my parents. But there came a time when I had to decide to either live for others and be in that dark depression or live for myself. I am glad I chose to be true to myself. Now I have an amazing wife of 16 years and two awesome kids. I still struggle with mental illness and just now had my diagnosis changed to bipolar. But I have a wonderful family to support me along this journey.