Also I should add that the last guy I saw is coming round to see me tonight and I hope he doesn't want sex because after admitting I'm not worth dating it's just friends or nothing. I don't have many friends so I can't afford to be picky. But I certainly can't be anything more than friends now. At least he was eventually honest. I'm more upset about the guy before and don't mind just being friends with this man. Although he has acted more like a boy. He is only 30, I will let him off. Right now I need friends so I'm willing to stay in touch with him but whether he will want to be if sex isn't happening I don't know. I might lose another friend tonight..