Wow, and here I was, thinking I was too darned old-fashioned of a guy to even live in modern times...

Being a man, and looking around me I can see your point: You do have to wade through a sea of scum to find one of those good guys. It can be disheartening at a certain point.
I don't know what's best to do at this time, but part of me still knows never to give up completely. You can meet a decent guy when you least expect it...