Thanks everyone for the helpful advice.
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Originally Posted by winter4me
You've been back together a few months...maybe you don't have to have any 'talk' or make a decision at this time. Relationships go through changes, no one feeling is always certain/sustainable... I would say, relax, enjoy what is good, be honest about your responses/feelings/thoughts in the relationship. Are there specific things that you or he need that the other is not willing to adjust for? (eg: you need time alone...is that OK with him? ...he needs....is that ok with you?)....if negotiation is possible, that is a big Plus.
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These are really good things to consider. I feel guilty a lot when I need space, even if he says it's okay, I have this feeling that I'm letting him down. I think some of the Bipolar depression is affecting all aspects of my life at the moment,and I over analyze things. I'm just going to enjoy things and take it easy for now and see where it goes. After all, we've only been back together for a short period of time, so I'm adjusting to the whole idea.