WHile orgasms are important for me they are not everything. The very act of having sex with my husband is incredibly intimate and that is what matters most to me. I love to make him feel wanted and to please him, and in the process he always makes me feel wanted too. I love the journey not just the destination

When I do orgasm it is incredible but it does not happen every time and that is completely OK. I always tell him that I enjoy every part of love making and treasure him
He is not a failure if I do not orgasm. It is just where my body is that day

I have committed myself to being available for him whenever he wants it and He does the same for me and knowing that each of us is always there for the other makes all the difference